Not a Bitter Ending..

Today, I read more than twelve divorce stories.  My eyes got tired from reading tons of stories. Most part of the stories were just them ranting about how bad their partner was, how she was a slut, or how he was such a thief or user.

I can not find a good story that we can learn from or even use as an example for my second entry in my new series, What’s Your Story? I can not use the stories, since they are too exaggerated. I will post some of the phrases or sentences from the stories that I am talking about.

Almost all of the divorce stories are written by people who cannot move on or still bitter from their break up.

Here are some example phrases from the divorce stories that I have read.

"She is abusive and will puch the blame on you and will lie to u about being raped just to get attention and sympathy which is all of course untrue stories."

"I have a forged gov't check from her, forged medical documents, false claims in letters from her, and lots more crap I would love to share with anyone! Stay away from the devil!"

"She will push blame onto everyone else and make others look bad when in fact it is really her who is the insane one."

"Then he started taking money out of my account which did not have his name on it. He had stole my ATM card. Turns out my ex is a compulsive liar."

"Nicole Martinez is a liar and every man alive needs to stay away. You might get an STD."

 
There are so much more ranting from these people.

So now, I decided not to continue the series of divorce stories. Because I cannot really find any good divorce stories that I can use as an example for the series.

On the bright side, I have found 6 success stories from www.sheknows.com

"I am a very successful divorcee. I married the love of my life, and after 12 years of a great partnership, we changed and realized we loved each other so much that we had to let each other go. Since we divorced, we have worked together professionally and love it! My 'was-band' found an amazing woman and we are both happier, healthier and love that we are still in each other's lives. You know the old saying, 'When you love someone, set them free?' Well, in our case, we came back to each other professionally and have a very deep love for each other. Friends called our divorce the 'divorce of the decade.'"
- Lorrie

"My ex-husband and I have an excellent working relationship. We share custody -- one week on, one week off -- and have agreed that we will always give each other the opportunity to have more time with the kids if we need childcare. We both agreed that it wasn't about us. It was about the kids, first and foremost. We are told by many divorced friends that we are fortunate to be good friends now, and should be the example of what divorced parents should be." 
- Natalie

"I have been divorced for exactly a year now. I am finally in a great place! I haven't been this happy nor healthy (mentally and physically) in years. I was married for 20 years and began to grow in ways that my ex just couldn't understand. I went through a very difficult divorce -- my ex was very controlling and mentally abusive. I was scared to death to leave, but I began to get stronger. I have turned my story into a business called AndeLifeCoach.com, where I coach other people to find their 'authentic' true selves. I have never looked or felt better." 
- Andrea